Need advice on WAW with OM

[svejk]

Well, the roller coaster ride continues. My wife came over on Friday night and told my how much she missed everything about me and was falling back in love with me, and even said she wanted to eventually move back home.

The next night I gave her a call to see how she was doing and she wouldn't even talk to me. I asked her what was wrong and she ended up hanging up on me and turning off her cell phone.

I couldn't help driving by her place at 4am since I couldn't sleep, and of course her car wasn't there. I'm sure she was with the OM again.

I don't understand the back and forth extremes. Everytime I think we are getting somewhere she totally changes her attitude.

This is so frustrating and heartbreaking that I just can't see an end to it. Is this extreme back and forth behavior normal among WAW's with OM and does it ever get better?

Svejk