You really encourage me and you write a lot of sense. There's precious little of that about and I always end up thinking I don't make sense. Maybe I am deluded or is it H and OW?
Taking him seriously means H wants me to believe our M is over and that he really intends to leave, he's not just playing at this. I told him I did take him seriously. What puzzles me is that he cares that I take him seriously. If our M was so bad and if he couldn't care less what I think of his actions why does he want this validation from me? If this really was the most important thing ever in his life then why is he still hanging around me and our home?
I started a thread New and confused; what next? (or now) but only a few responses coming in so I've taken to dipping in and out of other threads if they interest me. Thank God for this site and bless everyone who reads and posts on it. bar
