NDDT , j the words of support are most welcome , Its time I think to just see where things go. I did communicate briefly with W later today , I firstly appologised for arguing , but needed her to confirm that she will be able to stay for 2 nights this week while I am out of town, which she is. Seems to have calmed a bit and we both said sorry. Its actualy a bit of a biggy for W , the S word is used very sparingly , The appology was right out of DB'ing 101 in that I validated what she said. Hopefully thats put some water on the fire and we will see where the days ahead lead. She will have plenty of time with Kids so with luck that will keep her busy and I can concentrate on work as well. So as I am so eager to tell everyone else here , I can only work on me and do the best I can for my family.
