Hi Have Faith! We've had the confession and we've had the why the A happened talks. All my fault; he blames me for everything that went wrong in the past and accepts no responsibility for any of it. This confession happened before I started to snoop. So he has been honest with me but he doesn't want my forgiveness he just wants to go. I'm just waiting now for him to walk. I assume he will tell me when he's going but I still check his diary. He's moved on from debating whether to stay or go to thoughts of 'when we separate'. I've posted this somewhere else but I want him to take the responsibility for going; I don't want to tell him to go much as I sometimes feel like it when anger/impatience take over. On the other hand, how long should I wait?
