Wow, you and I have so many things in common on this that I don't even know where to start. Well, except you didn't get arrested for violating a bogus restraining order this week, but that's another topic......
I'm in the real estate industry, and after making some very serious $$, the last year or two has been a challenge. You know how it is. The financial issues are huge for women, not so much so they can shop constantly, but simply for the sake of being secure. Upset that apple cart and the wheels can and will come off.
My wife also did the EA with OM while this was going on, we are now separated, and she is seeing OM, which I'm sure is PA now. Long story. Way to f'n long to tell you the truth.
If you want, send me an email at dnq3130@yahoo.com. I have a couple things to say "off board".
