Dave, I'm so sorry for your dip. Even tho you say there was "no DBing to be seen", you kept your cool and, truth be told, prolly said what has needed to be said. I'm sorry you're so sad, but surely you know you did not do "nothing right". You have been doing all that you can, and all you should, to better your R w/W, and you know (we ALL know) you have shown true strength and success. The fact that W cannot/willnot better her R w/you does not mean you did nothing right, but you are right in tht you cannot do anything w/W.

Please try to sleep. Being tired (as I know) does nothing but wear your body & spirit down even more and make the situation seem even more Bad than it really is. You know what needs to happen now. You said it: Nothing to do but look after the kids and see what happens w/time.

Look at the sitch w/a rested brain & new eyes tomorrow, and see if you need to do anything. Maybe, but maybe not.

I'm sorry again.
(((Dave)))

j.


Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

Me: 45 - WAH: 36
S8; D6
M: 11 yrs 07/06
Initial Bomb 10/06; D Bomb 11/06 - DBing begun 1/5/07 - H moved out 03/16/07
To date: No papers filed; H not seen a L; trying to convince me to MUTUALLY file for D