Your post has given me some stuff to think about. Unfortunatley there has been yet another dip in the road. W again today when picking up D launched into an accusation over a minor matter without even asking for my take first and then refusing to consider anything I had to say about it. I told her I was tired of the unfounded accusations and from there it drifted into an argument with no DB'ing to be seen. At least i kept my cool but W left with D once she told me she would be seeing a Lawyer tommorrow.
I did nothing right , but I am tired and now so sad .
I dont see there is anything I can do with W , she has no idea of what to do but run from her problems. Nothing to do but look after the Kids and see how time treats us.