Wouldn't it be nice if things could be simpler? I had some strange OW things happen too. Not as frustrating as your sitch (I'd like see yours hit with 100 cherry cream pies!!! With a little Nair snuck in... hee hee!!!), but some women are so amazingly selfish and self-centered and slutty I just can't believe it. Why are people that way? Gosh why even court that kind of drama and ugliness? It just seems so unhealthy. What could possibly be attractive about someone else's husband? Why would anyone CHOOSE to be the rebound relationship to someone in MLC or questioning their life and marriage? I don't get it.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.