Originally Posted By: runningoutoftime
In other words, the person who puts less in has an easier time going into an affair because they never put enough in the marriage in the first place. And I sometimes wonder, if we (as DBers and people who really believe and want our marriages to work) tend to be the ones doing ALL the work

yes, knowing he had not much to give me when he came back i went full spead ahead in trying to fill the voids in my M, not sure he was in shape to carry his weight at the time, but yes, I was doing most of the work, and that stops NOW


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.