back to square -1 or -10000

[cat03]

I think part of DB'ing and getting back to who WE are, is not catering to our H's -- especially when they are the ones who have had the A's or want the D.
...you need to back off -- maybe he needs a huge wake up call. Maybe he needs to see that he could truly lose you over this kind of cr*p and see what his life would be like then.
yes you are right, he had some spine and stayed away (my original plan) until we see the councelor. I have tried to do it all and it backfired, then again, I know it is not all my fault so i'm not beating myself up for it