Hey CVA.....we women just want the perfect H...that's all. (lol) What you say about the money is probably true, I just never got to experience it both ways. I have been able to tell that "security" is not what I was looking for in a man when I was 18, but at 60 I can tell you it makes a difference for me...just MHO. At 18, I was interested in good looks,personality...you know, stuff like that. Now....just glad to be able to see! But, when you are younger, I think you just always feel like things will change for the better some day, and then you wake up one morning and realize that your days are about to run out and hubby isn't getting any younger either! (Lordy, did I just say that?)
In all seriousness...and I mean this...I can see why the men would feel that they were being "used" by women where the money is concerned. Guess one would feel "d... if you do and d... if you don't" Gee, hope the guys don't stop loving all the gals or earth is in big trouble.
Take care.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
