Thanks for providing more insight into the process at a Retrouvaille weekend. Your thoughtful answers in this thread (and other ones too) have been really helpful.
Connecting on a level of truth and honesty is really what I desire with my wife, and it sounds like Retrouvaille would be the most likely way we might achieve that.
I did find PonyGirl's stories helpful too. They gave me a glimpse of a scenario which I might be experiencing. Time will tell.
LG
Me 46 WAW 45 M 21 yrs
WAW: "I need to be alone" 12/06 W moves out 3/07 Mediation finalized 08/08