Hi, trust me when I say this...as an almost WAW.....we suffer a lot. We are not totaly inhuman, we may be selfish, insane, and some other things, but we hurt also. I, too, am willing to help anyone I can to try to understand this side of the fence. In my case, I am the W who had an EA with OM over the internet. H found out, grown children found out...it hurt very, very bad.

I don't want to take away from "Lessons from a Former WAS"....but just wanted to throw my two cents in. Just know that regardless of how well we seem to cover it up....even try to make ourselves believe we are happier with OP...don't believe it. We don't get by untouched!


Sandi2

Last edited by sandi2; 08/12/07 01:37 AM.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!