Always good to hear kind words, we just need to keep it all in perspective.
Just sitting here firing off a bunch of advice myself (who knows if it is any good? )
THought of one thing and I would really like the crew who has followed me to comment please:
My W has never been "alone" for extended periods. I started thinking about this and I think as a result of always having our children around, or her family, she really has no clue what it is like to feel the "sting" of not having a bunch of loving bodies around (no matter how much they are fighting or causing her grief, they still love you and you feel it). Also as a result, when she leaves w/ kids or I leave on a trip, I really dont think she understands that feeling, know what I mean?
OK, so here is the real question, I have no ability to take the kids away while she feels that "loneliness" us DBers know all too well. I could try a trip but now summer is over and as much as I wanted to do it, I would have had to "force" it on one or all of my kids if my W wasnt going which would have been counterproductive.
Thoughts? 2x4s welcome.
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
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