I truly believe from keeping up with your sitch and going back and reading past threads that your H is reconnecting.
How come on other "places" they call this cake eating???
Do you think that there is a time that this area is so grey that it might be misinterpreted as cake eating? I sure hope I don't open a can of worms with this question but I messed up in Jan. I was told he was cake eating and he was not he was really trying to reconnect and I didn't give him the warm safe place he was looking for at that time.
but then that turns into a touch and go???
so a lot of this is how you interpret things I think
m24 yrs h 50 me 47 s 21 s 17 left 5-30-06, and 12-4-06 still gone.............