Have Faith...I totally agree that sometimes you need to "force" the confession...they are like scared rabbits...
I can say the best thing I ever did was to confront this and face it head on...eventually when we did get back together we could openly talk about what went wrong and how to make things go right so both of us could be happy...and that is what a marriage is all about...2 happy people sharing their lives...not one living for the other or on egg shells wondering when the next shoe is going to drop!
