I have tried so hard to please him in everyway, and he was always to tired for me, but apparently him and ow have been going it at it like there is no tomorrow, he said there was no real chemistry between us and that i still treated him like a child, that my search for affection was too much to deal with when he wasn't ready.
Cat: this is KEY. I think part of DB'ing and getting back to who WE are, is not catering to our H's -- especially when they are the ones who have had the A's or want the D.
Of course, we all do it, but I think maybe you need to back off -- maybe he needs a huge wake up call. Maybe he needs to see that he could truly lose you over this kind of cr*p and see what his life would be like then. You have supported him through everything and I don't think a lot of women would have done that.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
