I'm wondering if I should make this my list, and juts try to highlight the validating, no gurantees, will take time, etc.
Was thinking of starting: "So, what have you gained the past month?" Then let her roll and just pick my moments when she looks to me. Another possible opener:
"As much as I would like to be back home with you, I am wondering if you'd be comfortable with that yet?"
or (thanks EAA):
"What are two goals you have for us to achieve over the next month?"
Any suggestions? other ideas? I think I should minimalize my opening and let her flow. Woudl like to say something that leads her to an answer that gets her talking about being together.
You lawyers should be experts at that!

I was worried of sitting alone all night. Took the bull by the horns and made soem calls til I got someone to meet up with. GAL can be hard when all my friends are married, mostly all with kids. I really miss my W b/c we always has Fri or Sat out just the two of us.


Me 32
WAW 30
D Bomb 7/9
Separated 7/15
Reiterated bomb 8/12
PA 8/21
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