one thing I learned, which obviously I have trouble with, is come up with solution to my Ms troubles with my H, we can say anything we want 'til we are blue bue if they arent in agreement nothing is going to happen. You don't have to throw the boundaries altogher, maybe redrawing them with his imput and consent, if you don't think he is in agreement with something, ask him how you both should deal with it.
Ah, trust, it can be build, but it is an act of faith.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.