Cat,

I don't think I have posted to you directly before but you did post to me when I first came on to these boards with my problems relating to my fixation with OW.

I am so sorry that this has happened - it is the thing that we all fear and dread so much - esp when we are piecing - for whatever reason.

I am with Sara on the confontation side of things generally and maybe OW could do with a timely reminder. Your H has very particular problems and she may well not comprehend the extent of these.

Whatever you decide to do and however you 'play' it you know that we are all here behind you, rooting for you and praying for you. These OW are EVIL and there's just no two ways about it.

Saffie


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength