Thanks for weighing in. What do you mean when you say "Remember, I'm not talking about what you say or do while you are still in 'fix it' mode. I'm talking about how you present the REALITY of a divorce to the WAS."?
Fix It mode is where we are up to the point that the WAS starts pushing the divorce. Then it's eventually time to give them a dose of reality.
You're ending 'fix it' mode now and it's time to do like Tyler has said. Stand like a rock.
