We were physically separated about a year and a half...divorce was filed twice...once about 3 months after H left by me...and then withdrawn just days before it was final...the second time was after he had been gone for over a year and made no effort at reconciling (which was what I thought we had agreed to when I withdrew my first petition)....again, by me...it was about 6 months later that he started visiting our S again, moved back to the area, and we started talking again...D is still pending for legal reason (protects me from his financial disasters)...
My H said it was the changes that I had made....the unconditional love that I had shown...and time for him to think straight that allowed for him to reconsider US again...I am not so sure that acting like I didn't care mattered because I did go through those times and it made no impact on him...mainly because I don't think it was "time"...
