Originally Posted By: Willing NJ H
I have to say, the thoughts of infidelity have taken over lately, and it is the hardest thing i've ever had to deal with. I guess i'm doing ok with it, but I feel like I have absolutely no control at all.

You don't.
Or do you mean you don't have control of your thoughts? I'm glad you reco's me to reread your thread. When I see my actions/sitch through someoen else it is easier to see everything.
You like golf? Think about John Daly skipping the PGA practice rounds b/c he didn;t feel like playng in 100 plus degrees. So he hung out at the casino for 2 days and then opened up with a 67!
In other words, get your mind off things and go do whatever you want for a bit.
I expect my W to 'be done' tomorrow. Going to accept it and move on. Still a lot of time left for us.
Hang in there, you got the skills


Me 32
WAW 30
D Bomb 7/9
Separated 7/15
Reiterated bomb 8/12
PA 8/21
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