Nicky I have read the same but it seems from reading here that some men can reconnect while with OW. But I think that they have realized the OW was not the answer and that is when the reconnection can begin with the LBS.
Any one have any insight on this??
I think my situation fits into this. My H has been reconnecting BIG time with all three kids while living with OW. He waits until about midnight to converse with them via text messages and at times actual talking on the phone BUT the actual talking on the phone almost always takes place during work hours where it is just him in his office.
The texting occurs really late at night. I think the MLCers are always depressed in MLC.
The other change: Instead of saying "I love you" and using individual names, he now says, I love all of you...... which my son said that includes me.
You can read up on my sitch which is titled, Steelers Thread IX for more insight.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
