Jet I agree with suit. You did great. I think she needed a 2X4 upside her head and hopefully she got it. She needs to know where you stand and what you want. You are not being unreasonable. It should be simple for her to understand, but obviously it is not. You want her back into your life, you are a changed (FOR THE BETTER) man and father, you want to renew your love to her, BUT NONE OF THIS WILL WORK AS LONG AS THERE IS ANOTHER MAN!!!
I see her hesitation on reconcile being one of two things.
1. She has been very deeply scared from events in your marriage and she is afraid they will re-occur and that is why she is hesitant.
Or
2. She is not willing to give up on you or the OM, so she is playing both sides.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
