I would suggest you do nothing for your anniversary. Leave that up to her. Maybe, get a little gift (a witch's broom? Oh, my meanness is showing now, isn't it?) and card, just in case she does bring you something, then you'll have something on hand. But, don't initiate ... it may seem like pursuing.
Sorry about your knee ... your poor D6 must've been very upset. I remember pulling my dad's arm when he was in the hospital (he wanted me to help him up, but I pulled really hard, and really hurt him). This was in 1973, and I still cringe at the thought ... maybe, because he died soon after, and when one is that young, you tend to think the whole planet's problems is your fault. So, I surely do empathize with your D6. Aw!
Anyway, take good care of yourself ... remember to keep some boundaries in place. You do not need to put up with any nonsense from your W. Just be civil, but distant.
Thinking of ya!
Thanks BeingMe. Yes, my D6 was so upset. A week later she is still asking if it is okay. I showed her where the stitches were removed so that means it's okay, that made her a little happier about things. She makes a point of figuring out which leg to sit on when we hang out, I'm a blessed man.
I will get a card as a fallback measure, otherwise it's just another day. Since she wants the marriage to be over this day really doesn't hold any significance any longer.
