So we went to the court, cannot believe he is actually dragging it through the courts, but let him have it his way. As I arrived at court looking damn good I must say I caught a glimpse of xh as I looked towards my barrister, geez couldn't believe the size of him, he as doubled in size, he was sat on a seat behind a wall so as not to be seen by me, but I did see ha ha. when we went into the room before entering the courtroom, xh came in with his solicitor and managed to get sat in front of me with his back to me, he went out of his way all the time as to not look at me or make eye contact not even by mistake, most of the time he was sat looking at the floor with his elbows on his knees, he looked one very sad and unhappy man in fact he looked ill and he was dressed like a right scruff, he wouldn't of gone to work the way he turned up to court, it would have been a hair cut, cleanly shaven and suit with tie and shirt when he lived here. anyhow the good news was that he didnt' get his way and get me thrown out of the house for trespassing, the judge said I was hardly trespassing as I had been let in, and then my barrister said that she would like to make a claim to the courts under the childrens act and so the judge has given us three weeks to do that and then we have to go back to court, still on way out xh stayed behind to try and talk to his solicitor, or so he didn't have to acknowledge me, something tells me the guilt he must have is stopping him saying hello. anyhow it was son's birthday yesterday, did dad want to see him no he posted him a card and put a gift voucher in, it said he loved him and missed him and would love it if son would give him a ring, son wasn't impressed and said no way he thinks dad is old enough to make the contact and if he can't it's tough, like son said why should he phone dad when he is trying to get us out of our home, xh told the court that he wants us out due to unforeseen financial reasons, and she didn't turn up at court which I was pleased about and he didn't put her name on son's card either. but he looked gross I have never seen him look so unhappy and scruffy, he as looked better when he was doing the garden, ah well that is the way he wanted to live his life.
