Separated from WAW

[Willing NJ H]

You feel the same as me DLT, it's very painful and confusing. As far as OM's, read what everyone posted to me. As far as bringing up fear of infidelity. I nicely mentioned in a conversation, that i've been jealous lately, and that I haven't felt that much jealousy in a long time. I told her that I knew (total B.S.) I probably had nothing to worry about, but apologized if she saw that the S and her going out was awkward at times. She said it's ok and understands, and it made me feel better. It eased the pain, and now I just deal with it. I talk to you guys and read DR whenever I get out of control. (I even keep DR with me in my bag at work!) I think if you do have to bring it up, do it nicely and don't ever do it again. I waited several days, and decided that I had to mention it to her. She knew that by "jealous", I meant that I was afraid she was/would be with someone else, and she reassured me "there's nothing to worry about." I don't know if she told the truth or not, but I have to deal with it. Good luck bro.