Atlas - The goals are great! You're really working hard and getting results. I agree with your C that you should back off and give your W room to initiate.
I've found that the hardest thing is your long-term personal goal #1. That's the one that takes the most effort and time but will yield the most results for your PMA and allow you to better focus on your other goals(whatever happens with your M). I've only been doing this for a month, so it's very hard for me now but I can feel the value of the little detachment I've achieved so far.
Stay strong,
Larry
M 63 W 40 M 4/91 S14/D9 bomb 7/6/07 D filed 8/3/07 final 2/4/08 thread