I also agree to letting her call you even though yu are thinking of her. MY H has never called me to say, "Hi." He calls for the kids only, so be it. I have called him many times and now I regret it. I don't anymore and I alsways let his calls go to voicemail unless the kids are here. Focus on detaching. Sorry to hear about your ex wife. She sounds like a serial bride! What is up with that craziness?


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
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