I would vote for not calling him especialy if you are emotional. He is already thinking like a beginner so should you. Crazy? You both have grown kids and have been widowed and now you have to think like you just met a stranger, so to speak. Unbelievable. The one person you should be most comfortable with and you have to act like, "Hi my name is Ducky!"
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."