Well, I always said "you cheat, you're gone" and then when it actually happened, 4 times at that, you realize until something really happens to you, you have NO IDEA how you will truly react/act.
How very very true.I always thought the same and that has been where this place has helped me so very very much. In my 'real world', for want of a better expression, this is what seems to happen and my friends don't seem to understand how I can stay with my H. Even tho' they try to be supportive they alaways slip in the odd "Well I wouldn't be able to............" and then go on to say what it is they wouldn't have been able to put up with or tolerate. And they just don't seem to know just how painfull and soul destroying it is to hear them say those things. Many is the time I have managed to hold myself together until I shut my own front door and then I just fall apart.
These times are getting less and less tho'. So keep talking to US Cades because we are here and we KNOW how hard it is to do what you are doing and we KNOW it gets better.
Lots of Love
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
