but he just isn't comfortable talking to me and that's really hard. I know if we could just talk to each other things might be a lot better. And ever since I tried to manipulate him into talking about OW he seems to want very little to do with me. He's friendly and nice, but distant. I just wish I could change that. ======================= sweety, do something, and NOW, I forget if he does counceling or not, but it seems he's having issues, and you know they won't go away by hopeing things will work out themselves, (just btdt) Everytime you mention ow you give her power and are extrating info just to put a puzzle piece in your head, all the while refreshing your Hs memory of her. Want her out of his mind? DONT talk abour her, we women have the capability of rememberting things and not letting go. Please let go. Isee youve'been gone awhile, hope to see you again luv.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.