Shocked H in NJ looking for DB help

[Heimlich]

I feel you, Will. My W seems to have taken a lot of comfort in talking to the receptionist in her office, who is divorced and has a daughter the same age as our oldest. I've met her a few times and she really is a nice person, but she's divorced and my W has really believed her, I think, in reinforcing my W's idea that if we get a D that our girls will be fine. It's infuriating, because my W has no friggin' clue what it will mean for the girls (my parents are divorced, I know what I've lost), but she never talked to me about it. Grrrrrr, mini-vent there on my part.

At any rate, if your W goes out once or twice, let her get it out of her system. I just read your post on Puddle's thread. In all honesty, given your W's past and the sexual issues you've had in your M, it seems that a PA is, while a possibility, perhaps a remote possibility.

BD