Need advice. Snooped, discovered infidelity.

[mkultra]

I am not sure what the alternative to DBing is? My mom has given me so much good and bad advice. Some of it is DBing and some of it is moving on. They may not be exclusive to each other. My mother believes that jealousy is a key component when dealing with a MLC and infidelity. I am still unsure. She thinks I need to date immediatley and go out like a single person. Is that part of GAL or DBing? I am loyal while he is dating? How does that look to him? He is adamant about me moving on and minding my own business. My mom says he feels this way because he is already smitten by OW and I need to get over him with a transitional OM. Is that right?