Are you saying your case is weird because of H's backslide after a year now? .... I guess what I'm saying is, at some point, the issues have to be dealt with or they'll eventually crop up again.
Sheila, tx honey, I dont feel so alone anymore Well, i'm saying that because there are folks who come here so afraid that things are just a mirage and very scared. My H fell in the trap pretty much becuase ow called him and he still had issues he was glossing over. We did have some talks, when I was feeling he wasn't giving me affection(tip, be friends first, or you risk pushing your S into something they aren't ready for if they are coming from an A) and he did tell me he still felt disconnected, but later on he'd act normal (now I know he was putting up an act so I wouldn't hurt if i knew the truth)
My H has a particular coctail of issues that arent your typical MLCer or man who is not faithful, his issues go back wayyyyy to childhood and untreated ADHD.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
