Need advice on WAW with OM

[svejk]

Another amazing and interesting development happened tonight.

Even though we decided not to see each other for a month my wife asked if she could come over tonight. She brought me dinner and we had a nice dinner together. She told me about some problems she had been having at work and I just listened.

She then started talking about our relationship. After just 5 days apart she told me she missed me very much and was starting to fall back in love with me. I kept a PMA and I acted completely different then I had on previous occasions and she said she could see that I was strong now.

She went on to tell me everything she missed about me, and even talked about moving back in eventually.

I kept my emotions in check as much as possible since I've been through this roller coaster ride for a few months now, and I've heard the same things before. Only difference is that this time I know how to handle it, and I won't push her to follow through on things she said or constantly question her like I did before.

I'll just wait for her to make the next move, and keep on practicing LRT since it worked so well after just 5 days.

I know you guys will all tell me not to believe anything I hear and only half of what I see. I understand this and I'm not getting my hopes up like I did before.

Before tonight though I had absolutely no hope that LRT would have any effect on my wife at this point, but know I see it really does work.

And thanks again to all the people that responded to my posts. You've kept me from making several mistakes in the last few days that would have probably ended my relationship or at least prolonged the agony even more.

Svejk