My H also showed no remorse, said he didn't love me, didn't want to be married, did not apologize, and pretty much blamed me for making him do it!...He also felt justified and told me where he was, who he was with, and what he did was NONE OF MY BUSINESS...that is why he left me!
But all that has changed...he is sorry, he accepts responsibility and accountability...yes his children and friends all found out...he was not happy with that because he lost them all...thankfully he is being forgiven by his children and his friends now...
All is not lost in most cases...just keep going...
bar...I understand where you are at...it is very painful...I am not sure how long you and H have been married and what your history is but I don't believe that it is always the case that once a cheater always a cheater...my H was always so very loyal for the 27 years I had known him...he snapped...basically it was not HIM...and I don't think he would do it again...
I also agree that if...and that is a big IF for us...I would not DB again...I don't think I could endure this again...and I would hope that H knows that...but as with this time...and with other things I really can't say 100% for sure what I would do...because I never thought I would do what I did!!! Take care....Lin
