I'm sorry to hear this terrible story. You were so nice and helpful to me when I was feeling bad after my H's deception. And now, I wish I knew what to say to you about this. I would rather believe that this type of thing doesn't happen. That really is bad. Why doesn't he have the strength to stay away from her? Why is she so persistent? There is a theory on the board that these other people are representatives of the devil. This theory is getting hard to argue with.