Corri Sounds like a very 'fused' woman to me. The woman could be fused or she guts an extra buzz when her mate gets a buzz.
Ever go to a great dinner at someone's house and no one complimented the host/hostess and the host/hostess said "Oh well, no one ate the caviar but I know it was good."
I like to have sex for 15 to 30 minuets for regular sessions I can hold back 90% of the time but I would not consider not Oing if I did have the mindset Oing was not necessary for myself or for BB. I consider Oing as a part of sex, for both parties.
When BB decided she didn't want hers anymore, sex wasn't as good, but I sort of got used to the situation because I had to. I think it would be about the same way for women.
I suppose if a person is built so Os don't happen for the guy, I guess that takes a slightly different woman to be OK with that.
So quick poll. Are there any woman on the forum that would be OK with having sex with a man you loved but he only O'ed half the time? I am guessing there are some women who will say yes.
Are there any women that would feel something was off and how would you adjust.
I don't want to pick on BF, but am asking this question partly because some men have a W that can't or won't take the time to be orgasmic.
I can be in a R like that, but would rather have a partner that can have fun/some excitement once in a while, it’s just more exciting that way.
I personally see men and women as more alike than different and want to know how people think in situations like this.