There are numerous reasons why H decided just to become an employee but whatever they are, I am pleased. I am very content with having a H that just works M-F, same ole, same ole. It doesn't take much to please me (I just wish he worked days as opposed to nights, sure makes for a terrible sleep)
The main problem with being self-employed is it doesn't stop at the end of the day, or on weekends. It goes 24/7. There is always something that needs to be done. That is VERY draining, especially when your R is already in a crisis (sometimes I think the work was a big part of the problem with our R - or should I say with his identity, which in turn became part of OUR problem)
My brother seems to be fairly balanced right now. Of course I am still very concerned as to whether he will do it again but for the time being, he seems to be fine and the psych seems to think so too. He is taking a combination of Celexa and Wellbutrin but apparently they are going to keep him on some other kind too (for at night) not sure about that one though
Heywyre
M - 57 H - 65 1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02 2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06 together 21 years *************************** Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)