Well, I do have to agree that we can all learn from it. I have to admit though well I apply it to my situation it just brings me down. I think my WAW has throughly made up her mind. Its been 4 months since she moved out, and I will answer these goals.
Short-Term (One to Two Weeks) 1. My wife checks in with me to see how I am doing. NEVER 2. My wife acknowledges there were some positives between us. NEVER 3. My wife goes to dinner or does something with me and the kids. NEVER 4. My wife invites me to do things with her and the kids (e.g., dinner or play time). NEVER 5. I reduce to the requisite minimum emails/calls to my wife. I DO THIS 6. My wife initiates conversations with me. NEVER 7. My wife says something positive to me. NEVER 8. We discuss differences/problems/issues in a healthy way. NEVER
So I guess that somewhat explains to where I am at. I am slowly moving on with my life. The times I sit back and lament all of them NEVERS above are the times I am miserable, and drive myself nuts. Dont sleep, and all that good sh*t. The times I do stuff for myself, like plan for MY future, buy replacement funiture, and all that stuff are the times I feel better. I am becomming accepting of what my life is going to be. Sometimes I am ok with it too.
