Svejk, I'm not sure if I can give you any type of good advice, but I did want to just reach out and let you know that somebody was reading your posts. Sounds like she's been questioning her current position, and the last time you spoke, she came to you right? I haven't been doing this too long yet and I couldn't imagine 5 days without talking. If you still haven't called her, I would hold off on tonight. Too late in the night for any good to come from that conversation. If it were me, I would probably call tomorrow just to say hi. Something along the lines of "We haven't spoken for a few days. Just wanted to let you know that I'm here for you to talk as a friend if you need it." Short and sweet. Let her know that you have lots of plans for the weekend and leave it at that.
I'm not sure if this is contrary to the DBing recommendations, but I think its important to at least let them know you are still out there. Kind of keeping you at least in the back of her mind.
