Thanks for weighing in. What do you mean when you say "Remember, I'm not talking about what you say or do while you are still in 'fix it' mode. I'm talking about how you present the REALITY of a divorce to the WAS."?
Do you mean that I am in "fix it" mode now? I feel more like I am in unfixable mode. I really really really want to invite her to go out this weekend. I am trying not to do that. To that end, I have made myself busy tonight and tomorrow night.
Am I correct in that I should end all non-essential talk with her? I am too confused. I am too weak. There are times when I am feeling down that I just need to hear her voice. I am pitiful. God this is hard. Why am I going through this.............
Me: 44 S: 17 and 7 Final-6-13-08 I once went to a psychic who told me I would soon feel cheated......
