Help! Any advice on my previous 2 posts?

It's been 5 days since I've spoken to my wife. This is the longest time in 12 years that I haven't spoken to her, and I'm trying not to contact her.

If it weren't for this forum and your responses I'd have certainly blown it by now.

Thanks,
Svejk

M - 10 yrs
Together - 12 yrs
Bomb - 3/8/07
Sep - 3/9/07
Me - 38
W - 42