Exercise. Hard Exercise. Most of the "experts" I have read will as step one, tell the LD woman to immediatly get into a strenuous exercise routine. This should boost your testsoterone as well as create confidence and a stronger body image. In addition, the other way to boost sex drive for women is to have LOTS of sex. This will change your bodies chemistry, and boost your testosterone. This means having sex EVERYDAY for several months.
Testosterone is the ONLY known aphrodisiac, so if you want to change your desire, you have to change your testosterone level.
Cemar - Why did I know you would be the first to reply?? Anyhow, I think you missed something in my question. Honestly it is my fault as I was too vague. I would have sex EVERYDAY if it was possible but occasionally I get turned down or schedules don't permit and before we know it three days have gone by and then it's like well...and I do it to get back the desire but it's not necessarily out of desire on that first encounter. So I guess I was asking if other people find that three days is long enough for their interest to drop? I wonder why my desire drops so quickly? Is three days that long? And I can guaranty you my lack of desire has NOTHING to do with confidence or body image! Also I don't want to just change my desire to be horny 24/7 but to make sure I desire my H, there is a difference to me. YOU should understand this, isn't that what you want from your W?
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Love at first sight is easy to understand; it's when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle. (Amy Bloom)
