Testosterone is the ONLY known aphrodisiac, so if you want to change your desire, you have to change your testosterone level.
REALLY Dr CeMar? Exactly how is it that you can justify saying that to a WOMAN? You are perhaps the least qualified person I can think of to tell a woman what aphrodisiacs will work for her. I can think of several aphrodisiacs that work for women, they key is...the woman has to be in the right frame of mind for them to work.
LikeIt Hot, have you tried flirting throughout the day? Intentionally making some subtle sexual gestures towards your H? Stuff like that throughout the day, if you both do it...can get YOU revved up and in the right frame of mind for later in the day/evening. I've found my desire is directly linked to my frame of mind...and well, since I've discovered that I know I can usually do things that will help to get me in that right frame of mind. I may have to start the flirting, but usually my H will join in throughout the day.