Need advice on WAW with OM

[svejk]

My wife has told me several times in the last few weeks that she is very lonely and does not want to be alone, and she was very emotional and crying about it. I know her well enough to know that she does not like to be alone even for a day or two.

Since she doesn't want to be with me at this point in our relationship, I believe she is seeing the OM to stop the loneliness. I believe this based on other statements she has made to me that I have posted earlier in my thread.

Since my wife is seeing OM and she doesn't know that I know, would I be out of line to tell her something like this:

"I want to tell you something as a friend. I think you are a wonderful person who deserves the best in life. I know how lonely you are at this point because I feel the same way. You could have anyone you wanted in your life and hopefully someday it will be me. But regardless of our situaton, don't ever settle for someone that doesn't deserve you just because you are lonely."

Or should I just leave her alone about this. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

Thanks,
Svejk