The only way you would be really safe form that, would be if he wasnt in the band anymore. danger of a "love the one you're with" attitude from him.
This is exactly why I don't see much hope...regardless of the short period of time he has been gone. There is no way he will quit the band. This is his first band that seems to be making some strides and they seem to have a lot of good connections to get things going. Not to mention that he did quit a previous band he was in because it wasn't working out for us (for our family) and one of his band mates then went on to form a new band that is now making millions. I know this is a biiiiig issue for him. I have often wondered if he somehow holds this against me (or the family/family life) that he missed his chance to "make it".
H just emailed me to switch days that he is watching D10...he made mention that he is going to MI for the day. Why does he have to give me snippets of information like this? Like I care? Well, the point is that I do care A LOT...and when he gives just bits and pieces of information like this, then my mind goes insane...like, why would he be driving all the way there for the day? We went on our honeymoon in a small town in MI, is he taking OW there? He doesn't really know any other place there. See my thoughts just go crazy at the littlest thing...thank goodness I have this place to let them out instead of at him.
