Flirting with Time

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Hi Dave - I hope you are feeling better after the flu. These infections can certainly linger.

Asked W to come by and help with Dinner Kids last night which she did so willingly.

This must have been bitter sweet for her, if she felt that her efforts the previous time were rejected.

W come in to bring me some water and instantly gets angry says
"talk about a slap in the face" then " I can see you have moved on" then leaves before I can say anything.
Here is poor me in pain have been in bed for 48hrs , cant eat and she opens with an attack.

Just being the devil's advocate for a bit. So she may still be hurt from the previous rejection, gets excited at being able to help when Dave is ill, brings him water, and encounters evidence of him moving on. Tough one. Changing the bedroom seems to be WAs soft underbelly. I think it was Ellie's husband who had taken an apartment lease, got packed to move out, and when saw that Ellie had ordered a new large bed 'because she wanted to make new better memories' (or sentiments to that effect) he cancelled the lease and never moved out

later I got her to come in and talk , I said there was no underlying reason for the purchase other than saw it , liked it and bought it. she was not listening as usual. Its actualy one her traits which is infuriating and thats making her own mind up about why someone has said / done something and refusing to listen to that person when she confronts them.

An opporunity to apply some solution oriented approaches here. Next time you catch her listening, maybe let her know you appreciate that she took the time to hear you out.

Then it came " you have everything , the house the kids , everything , you get a new phone , do up the room , I have nothing ." " You write up how we are going to split things and if I agree I will sign it" .I said I asked for none of this , it was your decision , then she "said you made me leave"

Thats the last we spoke I didnt have the energy . So now shes been on her own a month she is getting Jealous and angry .

Might be time to go talk to a good lawyer.

Oh dear. Is her memory usually this selective I'd be interested if this is still her take. My guess is that if things do not change, it may indeed time to see a lawyer.

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